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1. Introduction
Marriage is next to Salvation. Your life time partner is also your life
time partner in faith.
Become one- means one even in faith. Ruth 1:16-17.
You may progress or retrogress in everything because of your spouse.
Eccl. 4:9-11.
Marriage will be a lifetime CELEBRATION or a lifetime BATTLE.
Ecclesiastes. 9:9, Proverbs 21:9.
Seminar like this is indeed a crucial need of every couple. It is the
time to remember your vows and commitments, time to renew,
refresh vows and commitments of couples.
How many of you have been married for 10 years, 25 years, 40 years
and 50 years?
How do you assess now your relationship?
Truth; There is NO perfect husband wife relationship at the start of
marriage or few Years after marriage.
A becoming better and sweeter relationship between husband
and wife is the Product of LOVE IN ACTION as years pass by.
3. Sexual differences
a. A womans sexual drive tends to be related to her menstrual cycle,
while mans drive is fairly constant.
b. A woman is stimulated more by touch and romantic words. She is far
more attracted by a mans personality, while a man is stimulated by
sight.
c. Man needs little or no preparations for sex, a woman often needs hours
of emotional and mental preparation. Harsh or abusive treatment can
easily remove her desire for sexual intimacy for days at a time. Women
feel they are like prostitutes when they are forced to make love while
feeling resentment toward their husband.
B. Fires in Marriage
F- finances- the wife is the treasurer, the husband is the auditor. The best : Husband
And wife should talk together all finances.
I-Intention- secret intention kills relationship while Transparency promotes relation
Ship.
R-romance-as said women needs physical touch and romantics words.
E-expressions- not only in words but more on actions.
S-seductions- be not the object of temptation. Example: Seductive ways of wearing
Dresses, holding the hands of the opposite sex not your partner, secret
Interaction with opposite sex not your partner, emotional bonding. Let
Your spouse POLICE you. If your partner is not comfortable with any
Relationship you have with the opposite sex cut it off immediately.
If these fires in marriage are not manage well. It will really become fires
That burn and consume good marital relationship.