What Exactly Is Bullying? Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior can either be repeated or has the potential to be repeated over time, or can be a single significant act that creates a sufficient enough imbalance of power to meet the definition of bullying. Davids Law SB 179 David Molak had been harassed online by classmates who mocked his appearance and threatened physical violence. After months of cyberbullying, the 16-year- old Alamo Heights High School student took his own life in January 2016. 3 Types of Bullying Behaviors Physical Bullying Verbal Bullying Relational Bullying Using Physical Force Oral/Written Communication Harming reputations/relationships Hitting, kicking, pinching Name calling Leaving someone out on purpose
Spitting Graffiti Telling others not to be friends with
someone Tripping, shoving/pushing Teasing Spreading rumors Stealing or breaking someones Inappropriate sexual comments personal belongings Publicly embarrassing someone Taunting Making mean, threatening, or rude Posting embarrassing images online hand gestures Verbal threats Social isolation of peers Direct vs Indirect Bullying Teasing Direct Bullying is Name-calling Unfair verbal criticism a type of behavior Stare downs Taking belongs that is directly Threatening with weapons
communicated. Obscene gestures
Pushing Verbal taunting Mean text messages Direct vs Indirect Bullying Spreading false rumors Indirect Bullying is Convincing others to a type of behavior tease or call someone names that is indirectly Anonymous threats communicated. Excluding others from activities Cyberbullying Cyberbullying is unwanted Sending a mean, vulgar, or aggressive behavior that threatening message or image Spreading rumors occurs online or through Posting sensitive, private information the use of electronic devices Pretending to be someone else in that involves repetition order to make that person look bad Intentional exclusion and a power imbalance. Students who bully typically have larger Students Who groups of friends than other students. Students who bully demonstrate more Bully are Loners leadership skills than their peers but use those skills to engage in abusive behavior. The segment of their friendship group that they control usually supports and encourages their bullying behavior. Research indicates that students who Students Who Bully engage in bullying behavior tend to Have Low Self-Esteem have average or above-average self- esteem. And Are Insecure They are good at controlling and manipulating social relationships. Students Bully Others Power and control are the two main motivating factors, and while the Because They Want behavior may draw attention, it is not the motivating factor. Attention Bullying behavior does not stop if adults or peers ignore the behavior. Bullying Is A Normal Abusing others is not a normal part of childhood and if reinforced, it will Part Of Children Being continue into adulthood.
Children There is a strong correlation between
bullying behavior and later patterns of criminal activity. When It Comes to Whos Affected, Bullying Has A Ripple Effect! Bullies Victims demonstrate future delinquent behavior exhibit poor self-esteem Are likely to become school dropouts have poor school attendance suffer from depression engage in future mistreatment of family suffer from depression have a conviction from criminal behavior as an adult achieve less academically maintain few friends Bystanders Are Also Affected have conflicting emotions become fearful exhibit indifference keep repressed feelings of empathy Reporting & Eliminating Bullying Studies show that youth that have been bullied will not likely reportit to an adult at school. While more indicate they have told a parent, but many are silent. Particularly for older children, they may fear being labeled tattle tales or snitches by their peers. Many are likely concerned about possible retaliation by their aggressors if they report them.