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CHOICE OF PARTNER
One’s goal in life determines his or her
future. Every day one is faced with the
problem of choice making.
Choosing one`s partner is a crucial
decision that involves discernment.
Compatibility and other factors would
be an essential component in the choice
of one`s partner
As a young man or woman, you have a
desire and a choice. There are certain
attributes a you desire in a man and vice
versa. Getting married is easy but having a
happy and successful marriage is not easy.
Therefore absolute care must be taken
when choosing a life partner for happy and
successful family.
THE CHOICE OF A LIFE PARTNER
FOR MEN
There is a vacuum in every matured
Young man that cannot be filled until he
gets married. “And the Lord, God said it is
not good that the man should be alone; I
will make him a helpmate for him….. And
Adam said, “This is now the bone of my
bone, and the fresh of my fresh: She shall
be called woman, because she was taken
out of man”. Gen. 2:18-23.
It is God- given task for every man to search for
his missing rib which is his ideal wife. Most men
are very romantic. Women don’t easily get
enticed at sight as they seem to pretend as if they
are not interested in falling in love with
handsome men but right inside them they are
very interested but they find it difficult to
express it. But men can easily express their desire
for a beautiful lady.
Note that love at first sight is not really true love.
Romantic feelings can be generated very quickly,
but such feelings are not genuine love.
You may be attracted to someone at first
sight but you cannot genuinely love;
someone you don’t really know. In
searching for your ideal wife as life
partner, there are qualities that you try to
consider.
As a Christian lady, it is advisable that you
are at least 18 years. Those who marry before
the rightful age for marriage are in trouble
because most teens are not mature enough
to handle marriage. Besides, teen marriage
is twice as likely to end in divorce as
compared to couples who have attained
maturity before marriage. As a Christian,
ensure that your husband to be must be a
believer also.
DATING AND COURTSHIP
God intends that every human being enjoy a HAPPY
MARRIAGE. This is directly tied to whom and how
one dates—and courts—prior to marriage!
DATING
“an appointment for a specified time;
especially a social engagement between
two persons of opposite sex” (Webster’s
Seventh New Collegiate Dictionary).
is merely a set time agreed upon by two
people to engage in an activity.
followed by courtship, is supposed to lead
to a happy marriage. But marriage cannot
be happy if it is not built on the RIGHT
FOUNDATION. Most couples have no idea
that the foundation of a successful
marriage begins long before the wedding
day
COURTSHIP