Ifs & Buts in your attitude can be a barrier in

the path to success. People having an attitude

with Ifs and Buts in their life are mostly
unsuccessful as they do not welcome everything
in life without these two words. So what is the
main reason for that?
Experience matters a lot in life. There are
some people who involve themselves with
others in gaining experience. Interacting
with others and sharing your views with
others is a great way to gain knowledge.
Knowledge is something that never goes
waste. So the people who welcome
everything happily without arguing are
the ones successful in life.
On the other hand, the people who always
try to block themselves from various
opportunities by using various Ifs and Buts
often loose themselves from going ahead in
life. Without proper experience, no one can
reach to the path of success. Without
experience, the people often stop themselves
from the basic foundation of success.
Ifs and Buts in your mind can make you unsuccessful
in life. Usually they do not do the things which they
are capable of doing. So it is better that people should
move on to something more positive, rather than
stopping themselves from various opportunities. The
people should try to gain more and more experience
and also try to share the knowledge to achieve
success.
 The people who restrain themselves from
opportunities that come their way are often
known as unsuccessful people. And till the
time, they realize the fact that they are losing
their potential in everything and they are not
able to gain success in anything, they have lost
everything. The inactivity of them leads to an
unsuccessful life.
The people should always try to replace the
failure with success by replacing “If” and
“But” from their life. This way they can
achieve the most from their life without
much pain which otherwise will be the
barrier in the path to success. The people
should look for opportunities everywhere by
involving themselves with others and
sharing each other’s experience.
 So if you want to achieve success in your
life, then you should positively look for
opportunities and also remove the
possibility of Ifs and Buts from your life.
Then success will automatically come at
your door, thus leading to a successful
career in your whole life. So start replacing
your Ifs and Buts with some positive
thoughts.
Mother Teresa once said, “the hunger for love is
much more difficult to remove than the hunger
for bread. ’ In our everyday lives, we need to
show our love to others whenever and wherever
possible. It can be a simple ‘ thank you ‘ after
being serviced by the canteen staffers; it can be
a smile when you meet your friends on the road;
it can also be a hug given to those who support
you…
If only we know what the future has install for us
But we don’t know and can’t predict
If only we know how to live one day at a time
But we don’t live knowing that we can if we try
If only we say the right thing at the right time
But we don’t say knowing full well that we could
If only we do and act the right thing
 But we don’t do and act even when we know we can
If only we have not said and done what shouldn’t be done
But we know we couldn’t have avoided- a human frailties
If only we could appreciate the good that we see in others
But we fail to do attributing to being just a human nature
If only we could all develop positive attitude
But we know we are filled with negative thoughts
If only we could lighten the burden of others
 But we won’t even try and we say we can’t
If only we can plant hope on the face of the unprivileged
But we can’t afford to because this is a cruel materialistic world
If only we could make somebody smile just for a while
But we only know how to frown and burden somebody‘s day
If only we could spare some time for the lonely and old
But none would even if we could make their weary day gold
If only we all try to get into somebody’s shoes
 But we dare not do that for fear of pinches
If only we could love and get rid of hatred
But our soul is such that it only knows to bear hatred
If only we could be grateful even for a little gesture
But we only gather the little faults and forget the great
deeds.
If only…if only…if only…
But…but…but…
Life is full of ifs and buts
It’s all in our hands how we make a living out of it