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of the so-called “S.I.R.” coined by Filipino social
scientists. SIR stands for Smooth Interpersonal
Relationship. Filipinos go to great lengths to avoid
offending another’s feelings which is why they
have this linguistic social convention. It is also
part of this whole system of pakikisama and
pakikipagkapwa-tao. Pakikisama is the opposite of
individualism. In Filipino culture, a person who has
no pakikisama is a loner, an individualist disdained
by others who seek his company. He does not know
how to “go with the crowd.” A related word is
makibagay, “to conform” with the group in order
to maintain a Smooth Interpersonal Relationship.
Pakikisama is also sharing one’s wealth, talent,
time and self with fellow human beings as in
bayanihan, working together for a common good
without regard for monetary remuneration. The
wonderful feeling of having helped achieve
something for the common good is its own reward.
It is interesting to note that the root word for
bayanihan is bayani, “hero;” hence, “being heroes.”
1. Pakikipagkapwa-tao : Opening yourself to others
and feel one with others with dignity and respect deal
with them as fellow human beings.
2. Family Orientation : a genuine and deep love for
family.
3. Joy and Humor : Filipinos have a cheerful and fun-
loving approach to life and its up and down, pleasant
disposition, a sense of humor and propensity for
happiness that contribute not only to the Filipino
charm but also to the Filipino Spirit. We laugh at those
we love and hate. We tend to make joke about our
good and even bad fortune, to smile even in the most
trying of times.
STRENGHTS OF A
FILIPINO
4. Flexibility, Adaptability and Creativity
5. Hard Work and Industry : capacity for hard work
given to raise one's standard living of a decent
life for one's family.
6. Faith and Religiosity : Faith in God - accepting
reality to comprehend as a human created by God.
"Pampalakas-loob“.
7. Ability to Survive
WEAKNESSES OF A
FILIPINO
1. Extreme Personalism always trying to give
personal interpretation to actions.
2. Extreme Family Centeredness strong family
protection good or bad condition.
3. Lack of Discipline : relaxed attitude but poor
time management
- impatient and unable to delay gratification or
reward
- love to take short-cuts or 'palusot' system
4. Passivity and Lack of Initiative : strong reliance to
others fate
- yeah proud Pinoy. It's all because of the race
(nationality/blood) not by persons attitude, hard-
work, dream and perseverance etc.
5.Colonial Mentality : Patriotism vs Active
awareness
- luck of love and appreciation on what they have
- open outside but side-open or close inside
6. Kanya-kanya Syndrome : self-serving attitude that
generates feeling of envy and competitiveness
towards others (status vs prestige).
- personal ambition but insensitive to common
good
- crab mentality
- lack of appreciation resulting unhealthy
competition
7. Lack of Self Analysis and Reflection
- Sometimes superficial and flighty