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Inner Peace
Presented by:
J. Michael Goulding, MSW, LCSW
Sponsored by:
Carolina Partners In Mental HealthCare, PLLC
Thank You!!!
I invite you challenge my
thoughts…respectfully.
Forming Alliances
The Mirror
Guidelines
Take care of yourself and any physical limitations you may have.
Guidelines
• Pair up
Break up from 6
Death of relative 3 years months ago
ago
Critical family
member
Laundry
My cross to bear.
The Checklist
Emotional or physical
Master mind.
Aikido History
Aikido Principles
Evade
Align
Enter
Aesop’s Fable
Aesop’s Fable
The Sun & The
Wind
Aligment Exercise
Validate your partner as he/she discusses an issue.
Personal Policy
Aikido Intention: Keep your
opponent out of your space
by peacefully defending
your boundary by escaping a
hold.
Interpersonal Intention:
Peacefully keep someone
from “holding” you to an
obligation that does not
belong to you.
Snake Past Head Games
Aikido Intention: Get out of
the trap by moving your
hand directly past a
person’s head.
Interpersonal Intention: Go
past the trap of arguing
with someone’s head games
onto directly asking for your
needs.
Expose The Inconsistency
Aikido Intention: Overcome
your opponent by spreading his
arms (and energy) in two
completely different directions
thus taking him off balance.
Interpersonal Intention:
Expose the differences
between the high ideal
promises someone makes and
the actual behaviors/decisions
one actually exhibits, thus
taking him off balance.
Pre-emptive Strikes On
Repeated Attacks
Aikido Intention: Enter into
your opponent’s attack with
a disarming move before he
can attack again.
Interpersonal Intention:
Address the situation
proactively, when a person
makes more than one
attack, before the other
person tries to take away
resources from you again.
Go Straight For The Emotions
Aikido Intention: Escape an
attacker’s hold by pointing
directly toward a person’s
core (center of the body).
Interpersonal Intention:
Get a person to yield to
your point or leave you
alone by you pointing at the
core emotions that are
involved in a passive
aggressive conflict.
Natural Consequences
Aikido Intention: Overcome
your opponent by turning
his own fingers against him
until he yields.
Interpersonal Intention:
Use the factual information
about your opponent’s
faulty ideas against him
until he yields to the new
ideas which need to be
considered.
Adopt A Family Member
Aikido Intention: Enter an
opponents space who is
keeping you away with a
sweeping back hand.
Interpersonal Intention:
Overcome a person with
superior force by allowing
them to have their faulty
way and have them fail.
Monkey In The Middle
Aikido Intention: Bring
both opponents together
(and away from you) when
they are tugging on you in
opposite directions.
Interpersonal Intention:
Get two people together
who have different agendas
for you and have them work
out the differences that
really exist between them.
Get Out Of The Crossfire
Aikido Intention: Get away
from the attacker who is
holding you while escaping
a second attacker who is
moving into hit you from
another direction.
Interpersonal Intention:
Get out of the way and out
of the conflict that really
exists between two other
people who are trying to
get you involved.
Other Situations
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Thoughts
Copyrighted Material
Resources
Goulding, J. (2013). “Protecting Your Inner Peace”.
Outskirts Press, Denver, CO.
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