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Agnes Erlisa Elsan Muhammad Oktaviani Mutiara Dwiasri Rizqa Ridina

WHAT IS BULLYING, ANYWAY?

Bullying is an attitude or behaviour of someone who likes and enjoys to torture their victims. Not only for physical abuses but also mental abuses. Bullying is wrong because it can humiliate the victims, and then at the end can cause a traumatic for the victims.

BULLYING AT HIGH SCHOOL

Bullying can happen everywhere, especially in High School. In Indonesia, Kak Seto, a psychologist, said that a lot of case of bullying happened in High School. It happens between the seniors and juniors in School and usually starts with the jealousy of the seniors to their juniors. After that, juniors can be bullied because seniors are forcing and abusing them. But, in many case, the fault is not on the seniors, but in juniors.

When the fault is on the juniors, it usually because they have some kind of mental pressure So they act like they have a serious problem in school to their parents who are absolutely want the best for their children, and blame the school who will blame the seniors, because they thought that it was all about bullying in high school. So in this case, eventhough the fault is on the juniors, still seniors are the one who get blame for both from parents and school.

For the case of bullying, we give you an example. This case is about Vhia, a student from SMA 70. Her seniors, Euodia, Arvi, and Dinar asked her why doesn't she wear any undershirt. She anwered in unpleasant and unpolite tone that she has only one undershirt which is being washed by her grandmother. The other students laughed for her unacceptable reason. Vhia admitted that her seniors pushed, pinched her right arm, and kicked her stomach. She reported her seniors for doing social, verbal, and physical bullying.

However, both Euodia, Arvi, and Dinar denied that they did the physical bullying. They said that they just warned her. Regardless of who is lying or honest, the reason of the bullying is for Vhia's own good. They said that because she didn't wear any undershirt, her bra is able to be seen. In other side, her friends confessed that Vhia is a bullier too. She often pretending to be a senior to get some money from the other students. Nevertheless, any kind of bullying is still intolerable

WHY IS IT STILL EXIST?

Bullying is still exist because the bullier want to hide their inadequacy with their rude attitude. They also cant accept the truth that they are facing. They just enjoy the future without taking responsibility of it, so they bullied. And mostly case is in bullying theres a hereditary tradition. Therefore, it will stay alive and cannot be erased from generation to generation. The seniors who bullying could be the one who in the past get bullied by their previous seniors.

TYPES OF BULLYING
Verbal : by calling someones name inappropriate. Make a stamp for them and it make them hurt. Make jokes on them. Usually about physical appearance, ethnicity, socioecomonics status, gender, and also religion Physical: by hitting, punching, or having someones item rudely, and any kind of aggressive physical contact. Social : by ignoring someone and spreading all of rumors about them and also make them feel like an outsider.

Psychological/Mental : by intimidating someone or stalking someone privacy. Cyber : by bullying in the chat room, online, social network, instant messaging, and email.

POINT OF VIEW
Bullier : They want to show their power. They want to be more than the other especially at the juniors. They want the juniors are scare of them and adore them. They want to take a revenge for what have done at them when they were juniors. Bullied/Victims : They will always feel guilty at anything, they scare of their seniors and feel that the seniors are always right. They will have a mental pressure.

Parents : All parents want the best for their children. They dont want their children get hurt, abused, even bullied. But, because of their attitude like this, they cant divide which one is their childrens fault and which one is not. School : School will be the one might be blamed by the parents. And after that school will fight for the reputation of the school. Citizen around the school : They will have a pity for the students both seniors and juniors but mostly for the school. For the future, maybe they wont get their children in to that shool.

EFFECTS OF BULLYING
Bulliers : get more power, but also can be drop out from school with disrespect. Bullied/Victims: great depression, fear of people, mental disorders, and for the worst, getting insane. School : can lose its reputation, and get a blacklist from people. Parents : have to take care and pay attention for their children more and more. They also can have stress to a mental disorders because they can accept the truth of their own children

SOLUTION

Bullying is not the right way to show power especially for seniors to juniors. They, seniors, can show their power by using their ability and teaching them, juniors, a good lesson for survive in high school in the right way. Victims who are new with the school can make a successful adaptation and make new friends especially with the seniors who can help them a lot.

School which tarnished its reputation, can pay more attention at their students and also facilitate them with something that will decrease number of bullying. For example : sports club, etc. Parents is also one of the most responsible component. They can give their children more attention, and also have a good communication, so it will decrease family problem which always influence children behaviour

SOURCES
www.bullyonline.org/workbully/bully.html http://www.stampoutbullying.co.uk/types.php http://library.thinkquest.org/07aug/00117/typesbull ying.html

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