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How workable, realistic, and good are they for the client?
The helper also helps the client see that she is worthy of that vision.
At the end of the interview with the client, the helper lays out a plan and offers to extend the relationship that has been developing through appropriate follow-up at your center and referrals.
These, in fact, can give the client the kind of support she needs to work out her best options.
Your goal should be to develop a full picture of the client and her situation.
Spiritual
Physical
Physical
Emotional Emotional
Intellectual
Social
Intellectual
Social
Intellectual
Emotional
Spiritual Issues
Emotional
Spiritual
Thoughts
The diagram above may help you visualize all the areas you can explore to develop a picture of your client and help her see her situation more clearly. Note that the issues in the middle circle are generally her sexual activity or relationship and the suspected or actual pregnancy. If you think of these circles as wheels that can revolve and turn each other, you and your client wil observe that the issues in the center may be viewed from different angles and thus look different as the spaces in the circles are fil ed out and turned as you examine them.
Wants
Feelings
Values
Beliefs
Areas of Awareness
or are not grounded in reality so you can discuss them more fully.
OPEN OPTIONS
Clients with whom you open options might be described as being at a crossroads. Your discussion of options might help them see that there are, indeed, different paths available to them and that they can make better choices.
Crossroads Options
y For clients with a positive test or those who have a confirmed pregnancy,
or more options.
y Clients also need to see that choices
Positive-Test Client:
y Abortion
(9 wks. Fetus)
y Parenting
y Adoption
God says that children are a blessing it doesn t matter whether they are wanted by someone or planned. God wants each one to be born and has a special plan for each one. They don t really belong to us but to God.
God s plan is for sex, unconditional love, marriage, and children to go together. Sex within marriage renews and strengthens the closeness of the marriage.
Jesus died for our sins so that the gates of heaven were opened and we all have the opportunity for eternal life. If we believe in Jesus and ask forgiveness for our sins, we will be in relationship with Him, the very thing we were created for! Our lives can be changed in this world and we can have eternal life in the next.
Practical Help
Share the Gospel with clients.
Prayer
In this sense, you and your center are extending help to the client. You need to be familiar with all of the help your own center provides.
Extending Our Care for the Long Term: Follow-Up and Support
It means to offer continued involvement with your center or with another program to which your center is linked. It also means to truly empower the client to act on the positive options you have opened up to her and to live out the new visions and values you have awakened in her.
How to Ask
Often you have to be strategic in how you are approaching the clients and what you have to offer them to keep them coming back for more contact with you. State her next appointment time or next plan with all the confidence in the world, never hesitating for a moment that this is the plan of action for the help you need.
How to Ask
Sowers need to have this kind of confidence when asking the client to come back in. They can say, Suzie, I am back in the office next Thursday between 2:00 and 6:00. I can see you at 2:30 or 4:00, which is best for you? Your center might have appointment cards readily available that you fill in on the spot and hand to the client.
How to Ask
Some centers use incentives programs to encourage clients to return. Clients earn points or mommy money to spend on baby items or personal care items in the center s boutique.
Your enthusiasm extended to them will usually make them want to return. Your client is looking for authentic trusting relationships whether she knows it or not and you represent safety and help to her.
Carefully share information about options she needs to consider to make a good decision. Use what you have learned in the L step.