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Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. (Prov. 22:6)
Most Dads
Want to protect and provide for their children.
Good dads provide a safe home for their children and
their childrens mother by protecting them from violence and abuse. Most domestic violence happens to men and women who grew up in homes that were violent. By modeling a loving, caring environment, fathers can reduce the risk that their children will grow up to be violent or victims of abuse.
Children Know what Boys and Girls Need to Learn from Their Father Teach Values to Your Children Model Proper Ways to Handle Conflict Take Responsibility for Your Words and Actions
and Often about Healthy Relationships Show Love Teach Your Children to See Things through the Eyes of Others Teach Your Children How to Cooperate Practice Compassion Learn From Your Past Look Forward to the Dad and Helpmate You Will Be
deserved to be praised. Show her respect praise her in public for what she has done. You are a picture of what family is. How you talk to the mother of your children is how your children learn to treat women in general. And words arent enough, actions speak louder than words
Know that Boys and Girls Need to Learn from Their Father
By watching you: Boys learn how to be men Girls learn how to be treated by men If you son knows his real worth to you, he will learn
what real manhood means. As a good father, you will be the first man to pursue your daughters heart. Sons and daughters learn to be husbands and wives from watching fathers and mothers.
as a team.
conflict and in resolving it. When you learn which words and actions hurt each other, it will help you both learn how avoid and resolve future conflicts. The power of life and death is in the tongue. (Proverbs 18:21) The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of ones life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. (James 3:6)
Using I language
When you do (say) ____,
I feel I am sorry. That is my fault. Limiting discussion to the present conflict A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1)
others. Be direct in your advice to them. Make sure that others (friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, other adults) treat your children with the respect they deserve. Make sure children give others their rightful respect.
Show Love
When you show love and respect, your children will
feel more secure. Do special things with mom, do special things with each of your children. Say the words, I love you each and every day. Daily hugs, kisses, and affirming words fill our tank. Fill their tanks every day.
Teach Your Children How to See Things Through the Eyes of Others
Teach your children how to respect the views of other
people, even when they disagree. Empathy and understanding keeps arguments from turning into fights at home. The Golden Rule works: Do to others as you would have them do to you. (Luke 6:31)
completing tasks that require planning. Playing games with your children is a great way to teach cooperation. Working with mom on family schedules, everyday problems and conflicts is good practice.
Practice Compassion
When the mother of your children has pain, anxiety or
other challenges, be willing to offer help without control through compassion, sympathy and protectiveness. Showing the difference between helping and controlling will teach your children a valuable lesson No quid pro quo. "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. (Luke 6:32)
shaped you into the kind of dad you are. Be aware of how you were treated affects the way you treat your children and their mother. Learn from the good and bad lessons you received. Having this understanding will serve as the starting place to learn new ways to handle and resolve conflict.
change. You setbacks are getting you prepared for your comeback! Make a decision to line up with Gods plan for your fatherhood, let God be a Father to you. The beginning is to become a son of the Father; the Holy Spirit will teach you all things, and guide you into all truth. (John 16:13) .Including getting professional help.
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