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BDSM est un terme générique pour une variété de

pratiques (souvent érotiques) ou de jeux de rôle ; c'est un
acronyme représentant trois composantes :
BD : Bondage & Discipline (jouer avec des contraintes
physiques, entraînement, punition, etc.)
DS : Domination & Soumission (jouer avec
l'obéissance, l'échange de pouvoir, le service,
l'humilité, etc.)
SM : Sadisme & Masochisme (jouer avec la douleur,
la dégradation, la peur, etc.)
Le plus souvent, d'autres pratiques sexuelles
« déviantes » sont également considérées comme
faisant partie du BDSM.
Le BDSM est une activité consensuelle respectant les
droits fondamentaux de chaque être humain impliqué ;
cela le sépare des abus sexuels et domestiques.

Archétypes BDSM

Tout le monde est différent, et trouver deux kinksters

avec exactement les mêmes préférences est
probablement impossible. Il existe cependant quelques «
archétypes » communs auxquels les gens peuvent
s'identi4er à des degrés divers (de 0 % à 100 %). Curieux
de savoir dans quelle mesure chaque archétype vous
convient ? Passer l'examen! La liste ci-dessous n'est en
aucun cas complète, mais elle devrait couvrir les plus
courantes.

Dominant
Les dominants aiment être aux commandes. Certains
aiment que leur partenaire leur obéisse sans se poser de
questions, d'autres aiment une certaine résistance tout
en suivant leur chemin. Certains ne sont dominants que
dans la chambre à coucher, d'autres le sont également
tout au long de leur vie quotidienne. Contrairement aux
rôles supérieurs (donner de la douleur/de la servitude/de
la dégradation), être dominant concerne davantage celui
qui décide de ce qui se passe (et prend la responsabilité
qui va avec) que le contenu de ce qui se passe.

Soumis
Les soumis aiment suivre. Certains aiment céder le
contrôle à leur(s) partenaire(s), d'autres aiment qu'on le
leur enlève de force. Certains ne sont soumis que dans la
chambre, d'autres le sont également tout au long de leur
vie quotidienne (généralement avec des limitations).
Contrairement aux rôles inférieurs (recevoir la douleur/la
servitude/la dégradation), être soumis concerne
davantage celui qui décide de ce qui se passe (et prend
la responsabilité qui l'accompagne) que le contenu de ce
qui se passe.

Sadique
Les sadiques aiment inaiger (certains types de) douleur
à leur(s) partenaire(s), généralement dans un contexte
sexuel.

Masochiste
Les masochistes aiment recevoir (certains types de)
douleur de leur(s) partenaire(s), généralement dans un
contexte sexuel. Le masochisme est indépendant de la
tolérance à la douleur : il s'agit uniquement de la capacité
d'apprécier (ou d'être excité par) certains niveaux de
douleur.

Gréeur
Les gréeurs aiment attacher et retenir leur(s)
partenaire(s) à l'aide de cordes et/ou d'autres attributs
(chaînes, menottes, barres d'écartement, etc.). Que ce
soit pour l'amélioration sexuelle, pour l'art ou simplement
pour le plaisir, ils aiment avoir leurs partenaires
complètement à leur merci.

Lapin de corde
Rope bunny likes to be tied up and restrained, using rope
and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars,
etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for
fun, they enjoy being totally at the mercy of their
partner(s).

Master/Mistress
Masters/Mistresses receive complete control over the
life of their slave(s), and all responsibilities that come
with it. They go a step further than dominants in the
sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in
all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions
such as during their ohce jobs). Their primary focus is to
create a stable and safe environment for their slave(s), to
allow optimal servitude.

Slave
Slaves completely hand over the control and
responsibilities over their life to their master/mistress.
They go a step further than submissives in the sense that
their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects
of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as
during their ohce jobs). Serving their master/mistress is
their primary focus in life and they rarely have limits for
them.

Degrader
Degraders like to degrade and humiliate their play
partner(s), either by acting upon them in a degrading way,
or by or by forcing them to do things they consider
degrading.

Degradee
Degradees like to be degraded and humiliated by their
play partner(s), either by being acted upon in a degrading
way, or by being forced do things they consider
degrading.

Owner
Owners own pets/properties and take responsibility over
them, on a 24/7 basis. Sexuality is not necessarily
involved; in some cases role play attributes are also
provided (e.g. a cage for the pet). There is no link at all
with sex with animals (which is simply not on the BDSM
spectrum), and many pets don't even feel like they're
playing an animal, it's more about the typical relationship
between an owner and a pet.

Pet
Pets are property of their owner in daily life. Sexuality is
not necessarily involved; in some cases role play
attributes are also provided (e.g. a cage for the pet).
There is no link at all with sex with animals (which is
simply not on the BDSM spectrum), and many pets don't
even feel like they're playing an animal, it's more about
the typical relationship between an owner and a pet.

Brat tamer
Brat tamers are, in essence, dominants who enjoy
handling bratty submissives. They 4nd disobedience a
form of playfulness from the side of the submissive,
rather than a form of rudeness. They will take no offence
to it, but will still teach the sub a well deserved lesson
(because, of course, that is why the bratty sub shows
such behavior in the 4rst place).

Brat
Brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They 4nd
disobedience a form of playfulness rather than letting
their dominant down, and require a compatible dominant
who will not only teach them a lesson, but also accept
that any number of lessons might still not necessarily
change this behavior.

Primal (Hunter)
Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and
they enjoy letting their inner animal out during sex. The
key part for primals play is that the participants show
their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the
labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the
prey can become a snarling, growing, clawing animal
hell-bent on getting away from its predator (you).

Primal (Prey)
Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and
they enjoy letting their inner animal out during sex. The
key part for primals play is that the participants show
their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the
labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the
prey (you) can become a snarling, growing, clawing
animal hell-bent on getting away from its predator.

Daddy/Mommy
Daddies/Mommies take on a caretaker role in the
relationship, being a guide as much a dominant.
Daddies/Mommies dominate their little treasure
submissives with an iron 4st in a velvet glove: much
cuddly and affectionate on the outside, while being as
sturdy and hard on the inside as other dominants. Using
subtle psychological mechanisms rather than brute
power, they nurture their littles into obedience. Sexuality
is not necessarily involved, and there is no link at all with
pedophilia (which is simply not on the BDSM spectrum).

Boy/Girl
Littles (girls/boys) are submissive spirits with a strong
aavor childlike innocence. They long for a nurturing
loving dominant who plays a guiding, almost parental
role in their lives. While they require a softer approach to
be dominated than most other submissives, their
submission can be just as deep as that of other
submissives or slaves. Sexuality is not necessarily
involved, and there is no link at all with pedophilia (which
is simply not on the BDSM spectrum).

Ageplayer
Ageplayers like to play with age as part of their kink. They
typically take on a much younger or older age than they
actually are, or prefer playing with a partner that does so.
Attributes and behavior changes (such as paci4ers,
coloring books, speaking in more childlike language, etc.)
are commonly paired with this, to enrich the context and
make it more appropriate for the played age. Sexuality is
not necessarily involved, and there is no link at all with
pedophilia (which is simply not on the BDSM spectrum).

Exhibitionist
Exhibitionists enjoy showing their naked body or a sexual
activity to other people. Consensually, of course.

Voyeur
Voyeurs enjoy watching the nakedness or sexual activity
of other people. Consensually, of course.

Experimentalist
Experimentalists want to have tried it all. An open mind
and an insatiable curiosity are their key features, and they
will rarely form an opinion before they have gathered 4rst
hand experience. They often have plenty of fantasies and
will actively pursue to try them out.

Non-monogamist
Non-monogamists do not see sexuality as necessarily a
1 on 1 thing. Whether this means they will have several
relationships or just see other people outside their
relationship (or have even more exquisite constructions)
depends entirely on the person and the situation, but they
all have one thing in common: their sexuality is more
than just between them and one 4xed partner.

Switch
Switches like to... well, switch. Always taking a dominant
or top position is not for them, neither is always taking a
submissive or bottom position. Some prefer to switch
with the same partner or partners, others have a
dominant play partner and a submissive play partner, but
in either case they do not 4t on one end point of the
spectrum.

Vanilla
Vanilla people enjoy regular, standard sex and
relationship models. Nothing wrong with that, as long as
you're having fun!

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