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Adolescent-parent attachment:
Bonds that support healthy development
dolescence is increasingly recognized as the second and mental health professionals (eg, psychiatrists, psychol-
A major ‘window’ of opportunity and risk in development,
next only in significance to early childhood development. It
ogists and other adolescent health specialists), the true
depth of the changes that occur during this period have yet
is a period of biological, cognitive and social change of such to be fully understood. New research points to significant
magnitude and rapidity that it is no surprise to find that it is transformations in neurological structure and function.
associated with the onset or exacerbation of a number of Dopamine production and functional levels of other neuro-
health-related problems including depression (1), eating dis- transmitters change throughout adolescence, reaching
orders (2), substance abuse and dependence (3-5), risky sex- adult stabilization levels at approximately 16 years of age
ual behaviour (6), antisocial and delinquent activity (7) and (13). Significant transformations occur in prefrontal cortex
school dropout (8). In recent years, the role of parental influ- function, supporting increasing capacity for abstract think-
ence in adolescent adjustment has been seriously questioned. ing and problem solving (14) and strategic response inhibi-
Some researchers have argued that parents make little or no tion (15). Rapid hormonal changes also characterize this
difference in how their children navigate the adolescent period, developmental period (16). Contrary to popular opinion,
pointing instead to data showing that peer influence domi- hormonal changes do not directly account for behavioural
nates this period (9). Contrary to this position, there is grow- changes during adolescence. However, changes in neuro-
ing evidence that parents do make a difference, and that this logical structure and neurotransmitter function have been
difference operates through the nature of their attachment implicated in increased irritability, anhedonia and risk tak-
bond with their child (10-12). ing behaviour which have been documented to increase
during adolescence (14).
THE SCOPE OF ADOLESCENT TRANSITION Changes in neurological development are accompanied
The quintessential characteristic of adolescence is change. by significant cognitive development; in particular, the
Although this has long been recognized by social scientists capacity for abstract thought and complex problem solving.
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Metacognitive and representational capacity grows from caregivers to gain protection and safety. In the absence of
early to late adolescence (17-19). Adolescents are increas- stress, proximity-seeking behaviours are reduced and the
ingly able to simultaneously represent and compare multi- attachment system enables children to engage in other
ple perspectives and attributes, promoting a more adaptive behaviours that promote exploration and mastery
differentiated view of the world, including how adolescents of the environment (42). The attachment system, there-
see themselves and others around them (20-23). Early in fore, allows children to relate to their parents both as a
adolescence, however, the ability to differentiate outstrips ‘secure base’ (43) from which to explore, and as a ‘safe
the capacity to integrate diverse information, leading ado- haven’ for obtaining support and protection in times of per-
lescents to view the world in black and white terms, and to ceived threat.
feel at odds with seemingly contradictory aspects of them- Parents differ in the nature and quality of care that they
selves. It is not until late adolescence that conflicting provide to their children and, over time, children’s attach-
Adolescent-parent attachment
attachment dilemma, that is, maintaining connection with ‘relatedness’ while disagreeing on critical issues is the hall-
parents while exploring new social roles away from the mark of attachment security (70). Maintaining relatedness
family and developing attachment relationships with peers is captured by specific parent-adolescent behaviours during
and romantic partners (12). Of great importance is the fact disagreements, including confidently stating one’s own
that the successful transition of adolescence is not opinion, and validating and showing empathy for the other
achieved through detachment from parents (48,49). In person’s point of view (51).
fact, healthy transition to autonomy and adulthood is facil- In summary, while the presence of conflict in the parent-
itated by secure attachment and emotional connectedness adolescent relationship is normal, how the parent-adoles-
with parents (50). cent dyad negotiates conflicts and sustains their
In a nutshell, research shows that attachment security in relationship is diagnostic. Adolescents who feel understood
adolescence exerts precisely the same effect on develop- by their parents and trust their commitment to the rela-
attachment to parents and other adults during adolescence, 13. Takeuchi Y, Matsushita H, Sakai H, Kawano H, Yoshimoto K,
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